Wednesday, April 7, 2021

Not Right Now!

 

Last year we all got restricted to our own four walls by this time which till then used to be perceived as a privilege for few – work from home. What felt like a lottery ticket at the onset, soon started turning into an ordeal for many.

We all started living the human simulation of the new style of work and the grass didn’t seem greener anymore.

Till this time people thought work from home was equivalent to an extra holiday. However, as businesses, schools, social lives started zooming into various electronic platforms, lines started getting blurred. Bosses learned to accept pets showing up during review calls, students started observing the teacher’s husband when they got bored listening to her, children started creating games for online play dates. We weren’t left with any more demarcation between work and home. As one started spilling onto the other, people realized it was time to start creating boundaries.

Since then it’s been a year and we have all learned to carve out our own do’s and don’ts. Is the list exhaustive yet? I don’t think so since this is a continuous process. Everyday we are learning to do a few more things to ensure the boundaries are helping us stay true to our goals. In my case I have understood that there will be days when work will take precedence whereas there will be some when it will be home. I have started respecting hard stops and ensure I implement my own as well. I see the levels of trust and empathy have shot up like never before. People have started respecting boundaries without sending anyone on a guilt trip. It has become acceptable to say “not right now”.

 

5 comments:

@Yeh_kya said...

Made sense to me. The world has changed and how. Not sure if its for the better or for worse but the good part is that everybody's dealing with face on.
Keep writing. :)

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Amish Singhal said...

Well written. We all need to dwell on this from time to time. Most of the times the thin lines remains blurred and we end up stretching ourselves. That said, I am yet to implement this personally but like they better late than never. Need to make sure I dont stretch and plan my time/schedule well :)

Amish Singhal said...

True that and well written. We often tend to get lost in these blurred lines and end up stretching ourselves. Personally I am yet to implement this but better late than never. Must follow this immediately to achieve work life balance